When I was feeling really low one summer, a friend suggested I keep a journal of tiny accomplishments. “And by ‘tiny’,” she said, “I mean minuscule. Like, ‘I changed out of my pajamas.’ Or ‘I remembered to brush my teeth.’”
It sounded stupid. (Pretty much everything sounds stupid when I’m depressed.) But I tried it anyway. What did I have to lose? To my surprise, the simple act of recording something I accomplished that day, no matter how ridiculously insignificant, helped lift my mood.
And when I had several days’ worth of tiny accomplishments to look back on, I began to see a pattern–of courage, and showing up, even when it was hard. When that annoying voice in my head told me I was a failure, I waved my tiny accomplishments journal in its face and yelled “See this?? Ha!”
Give it a try. Start acknowledging your achievements. I know you’ve accomplished something today, even if it’s simply “I got out of bed” or “I fed the dog” or “I continued to breathe.” It counts. Write it down.
What are your tiny accomplishments today?
I finished my exercises this morning, even though I didn’t want to.Judy, Seattle
I did my prayers and meditation. I haven’t done them in awhile and the feeling of peace returned if only for 30 minutes.Babs, Overland Park, KS
My tiny accomplishment is that I have continued to do my exercises 3X/week – I don’t always want to, but I always do.
Today I worked without any news, music, audiobooks, or TV entertainment programs, replacing them with continuous peaceful ocean sounds. What a difference! Creativity expanded exponentially!Colleen, Federal Way, WA
I rode my bike AND cleaned the messy kitchen before heading to work at 6:30am.
I filled both bird feeders today. This way I can enjoy watching the birds. I can also see which one empties first.Julie, MT
I swept up a lot of cat hair.
I took time just for me and walked around green lake, calmer and ready to take in another day.Morley, Seattle
Instead of writing a defensive response to an angry email, I’m pausing to read your blog.
Today, I sat down with my hot water with lemon, my probiotic supplements and Things in My Pocket and I read a few posts. It was so nice to slow down for a moment.
Leslie, Portland OR
I sat at the kitchen table and ate my lunch instead of plowing it down over the sink.
Ashima, Grand Rapids
Today I am working on my laptop from the dining room table, instead of from my bed like most of the time.D, Bothell
I helped put up an electric bear fence (that is, to keep bears out of the fruit trees)
I am still doing my exercises (dips) from the challenge I did last month. I haven’t missed a day – yea!!!
I remembered to take my meds today.D, Bothell
I have several for today and the day’s just starting 🙂 1) started a load of wash and 2) got pre-Christmas decorations out (Santa Lucia and hug up the wreath (after first spraying it with Deer-Off). I have also cleaned the entry way.
I called my grandma just to hear about her day.Fiamma, Seattle
It felt big, though–I picked about 5 gallons of plums.Julie, MT
I was tired so I took a nap!Ashima, Grand Rapids, MI
I slowed down, thought about why the class I was teaching was not going well … and made a couple of changes (including reading to them about neuroplasticity).Julie, MT
Today I started my laundry.
Today I meditated for 10 min.
I exercised self-compassion by scaling back my preponderance of meetings, even though I enjoy them.Jon, NY
I fed the kitties at 4:30 this morning when they woke me, instead of ignoring them and going back to sleep.
My son played Pokemon Go with me this weekend.
Today I managed to get out of bed, get dressed, and have a cup of coffee before the kids got up. Time to myself …. ahhhhhh.
I cuddled my puppy so she could nap while I held her, without thinking I should “multitask.”Colleen, Federal Way
I learned to tie a slipknot. I am usually very uncoordinated when it comes to things like that.